Basic Kama Sutra Positions For the Ultimate Sex Life

By Alex Ca

Here’s the much awaited sequel to our first article on the Kama Sutra. Previously, you’ve learned all about the essential principles of Kama Sutra and why it’s not just a manual for sex. Nonetheless, this ancient Indian text does have precious advice to offer about the art of making love and now, you’re about to learn some of its most famous lessons.

The Widely Opened Position

The husband is on his knees on the bed while the woman lifts up her bottom half to wrap her legs around her husband’s waist. The woman arches her back while pushing herself backwards against the mattress while the husband holds her in position with his hands on her back. It will be up to him to regulate the rhythm and force of his thrusts.

As you can see, this position will require a bit of flexibility on the woman’s part and strength from the man’s part. Experience in gymnastics is not necessary, but if it’s been a while since you’ve placed pressure on your back, be ready for your back to ache a little after sexual intercourse.

All the same, any resulting pain is well worth the pleasure!

The Clasping Position

Normally, sex has the man on top and the woman under. Say all you want about female power, but this position also allows women to just lie back and enjoy while the men do all the work. But if you really want to be the one holding the whip this time then you’ll like this second position we’re about to study.

The husband lies on his back on the bed. Make sure his legs are stretched out. Stretch out on top of him as you let him thrust into you. And after that, it’s all yours, dear.

The nice thing about being on top is that you get to control the pace. You get to tease him the way he likes to tease you, changing the pace between excruciatingly slow and hard and fast. Also, you get to find the exact position to target your sweet spot and hopefully allow both of you to climax together. If your husband is particularly well-endowed while you’re one of those women with perpetually small and tight openings, this type of position facilitates entry and is able to reduce potential for pain during intercourse.

The bad thing about this is that you do all the work and if you’re not physically fit, this position could be tougher than you’ve anticipated.

The Indrani Position

Yes, before you even ask, the position is as exotic as it sounds and is fantastic for adventurous couples. The wife lies on her back with the knees bent up to her chest. The husband then kneels at her back and enters from behind. For intercourse, you can either start moving by pushing your feet against your husband’s chest or you can raise your legs up and rest it on his underarms while pulling yourself toward him by letting your arms go around him and clasping his butt.

It may take a while before you get the position right, but don’t worry, that’s entirely normal. Wriggling and moving around on the bed will only heighten the pleasure when you are finally joined. Like the above position, this is also good for unbalanced pair-ups between well-endowed husbands and women with perpetually virgin-like openings.

The Milk and Water Embrace

Sounds intriguing, doesn’t it? Relax – you don’t need a unique setting to get this position done. What you do need, however, is a chair. Almost all kinds would do.

To start with, have your husband take a seat. Sit on top with your back against his chest. A little foreplay after this is recommended. Imagine your husband is a blind man. You’ll need to guide his hands in order to have him touch your most intimate parts. When both of you are sufficiently aroused, your husband will then lift you up and settle you upon his manhood. Surely you know what to do from here, don’t you?

The great thing about this position is that it allows you to enjoy extremely satisfying sex anywhere that’s got chairs, may it be the back of your car, the theater (if you’re in the mood for PDA), or even one of the more private areas of resort.

The Tigress

Are you ready to roar out your pleasure? Here’s another variation that puts you on top – where you belong – and in control – which is you’re born to do. Can anybody say girl power?

The husband again lies on the bed while the wife sits atop with her back to him. The wife then leans back and places her hand against the husband’s chest. He grabs hold of her waist and voila! One thrust has him sinking home and the wife then controls the pace as the husband goes in and out just the way she likes it. If both of you do your job well – it could take a couple of tries but who’s complaining, right – then there’s a very good chance you’ll enjoy an explosive climax…together!

The Lotus

Last is one of the most challenging but also one of the most rewarding positions of all in the Kama Sutra. The Lotus requires a significant amount of dexterity from both partners so if you’re not the flexible type, now’s a good time to learn yoga.

This time, the woman lies on her back and crosses her legs. So far, so good, right?

Well, it’s the next step that’s difficult. You then need to bring your legs as close to your chest as possible. Keep them flat against your chest if you can. When you’ve achieved the position, that’s the time your husband can finally go in and let the thrusting begin!

It may seem physically impossible but do strive hard to achieve this position and your G-spot will sing like it’s never sung before.

With these lessons, you prove once and for all that marriage sex doesn’t ever have to be bad – or worse – boring!

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