Discuss with your
wife, and then together (i.e., with mutual
cooperation) overcome the problem in about 4-6
weeks. Just as one would learn control over bowl
movement, urination etc. or just has one could learn
swimming/vehicle driving, so also one could learn to
drive his movements to slow down ejaculation.
i did sex with my
girlfriend with out condom. her menstrutaion period still
did not come till 34 days have passed. is there any chance
of got pregnancy?
M, 21, Single, China
Depends on exactly which
day you have had sex. If you had sex some 15-20 days ago,
ask her to get tested for pregnancy.
I am using copper T but
now period has been delayed for 1 week so. Am i pregnant? is
there chances of being pregnant.
The information in your mail
is insufficient to provide a helpful answer. Normally the
failure rate of Copper-T is low. So a delayed period may not
necessarily mean pregnancy. If in doubt get your early
morning urine sample tested for pregnancy in a nearby lab,
or see a doctor.
During every last day of
my menstural period,the discharge always have offensive
smell. Is this normal or an infection. Meanwhile i am yet to
have sex with any man.
29, F, Nigeria
Offensive smell may mean
infection such as Bacterial vaginosis, which is very common.
It can arise even without any sexual contact. Do not
hesitate to see your doc. All you need is about a week's
medication and may be advice about a couple of precautions.
Two days back i had a
massage at one of the massage parlors in San Jose,
California for 1 hour. The massage sheets were not clean. I
had my underwear throughout the session and never removed
it. Towards the end of the session the asian masseur, asked
if i would like to have a genital massage/blowjob. I refused
and came out in 10 minutes. I am afraid that the place is a
very bad one and i made the wrong choice of going to wrong
massage parlor. I am having doubts that the massage sheets
were wet with semen from a previous encounters of her with
other customers. Is it possible for me to contract HIV from
those unclean sheets or from her hands. She gave a deep
massage meaning she used her hands hard on my back and
around my neck and legs. I am confused as i am married.
Should i take HIV tests ? Regards.
I guess you do not have much
reason to worry about this episode. First it's unlikely
that any parlour staff would leave semen on the sheets
for the the next customer to lie down on. No body wants
to lose business. Second, Even if those marks were of
semen they need not necessarily contain HIV. Third, even
if the semen contains HIV germs, they would not
penetrate your skin unless there are open wounds or
fresh cuts on your skin. HIV can only penetrate through
wet mucous membranes (the pink wet skin that you find in
the mouth, eyes, tip of the penis etc). A blow job on an
a naked penis (i mean one without condom) would have
been risky but this has not happened, no?
So, I think you have
virtually no chance of contracting HIV from unclean
sheets and her hands. Just to have scientific proof that
you are free of HIV infection, get tested for HIV and
sigh with relief that you are Okay. Go for testing after
3 months from the date of massage.