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Burning problem
I am facing one problem.
1) After intercourse I have burning sensation in my urinalcave
and I am not gettin sleep properly due to this problem, since
one year.
2) my wife also tells she has same problem after intercourse.
3) once she had urinal infection.
Now I am alone in KUWAIT but same problem I am facing. I do not
have any sexual contacts with any body.
Since you are experiencing burning sensation in the urethra after
intercourse (we presume, ejaculation) for over one year, we suspect
this to be due to inflammation of the prostate gland (prostatitis).
In some people this inflammation is due to infectious organisms
and in some it is unexplained. In either case it requires prolonged
treatment with drugs which can penetrate the prostate gland. Chronic
(long-standing) prostate inflammation does not easily yield to
antibiotic therapy. Though it is not a life threatening or otherwise
serious, it causes some discomfort to the patient and makes him
restless.
However, your symptoms can also occur from a variety of other
conditions, for ex., urinary tract infection, bladder infection,
infection in the testes and epididymis, tuberculosis of the genitalia,
a stricture in the urinary passage etc. Please, therefore, consult
a urologist for diagnosis and treatment. Your wife also needs
some investigations and therapy, because usually, she will also
harbor the same microorganisms that you may be possessing.
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Is homosex wrong ?
Is homosex wrong ?
The current opinion is that homosexuality is a variation of normal
human sexual preference. The sex scientists no longer consider
this an abnormal or pervert behavior, though the society has not
yet fully come to terms with the scientific opinion.
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Penis enlargement
What about penis enlargement treatment? actually
it is possible? I am 27.
Yes, the penis can be enlarged in girth and length
through a surgical procedure called phalloplasty, though the results
are often dubious and short lived. Though it is being practiced
in many parts of the world today, majority of the urologists do
not endorse the procedures in vogue.
In one such procedure, which aims at increasing
the girth of the penis, fat from the lower abdominal wall is suctioned
out and injected beneath the loose skin of the penis. This gives
an illusion of girth enlargement. Because the fat is injected
into an area that the nature has not planned to, the fat eventually
dies (fat necrosis) taking the penis back to its earlier size.
In addition, scar tissue develops underneath the penile skin;
and the surface of the penis becomes nodular and lumpy, leading
to total disfigurement.
Another technique intended to increase the length
of the penis involves cutting of a ligament (elastic band of fibrous
tissue) that suspends the erection-cylinders of the penis from
the pubic bone. Under normal circumstances, this ligament keeps
the erect penis steady during the vigorous movements of sexual
intercourse. So here also, there is no actual lengthening of the
penis.
At the present time, we believe, that there are
no satisfactory procedures - medical or surgical - that actually
increase the size of the penis on a permanent basis and without
adverse effects.
You may wish to explore further on this topic in
www.andrology.com and other
sites mentioned in the links page of
this site.
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No ejaculation
Problem: I had sex for 1 and 1/2 hrs. without
having an orgasm. My girlfriend and I tried various positions,
but had to stop due to her pain. The only reason I can think of
is that it has been a while since I have had intercourse. I need
some advice, please help.
Consultation: Not yet, this is my first attempt for answers. -Nashville,
TN
Your question lacks many details. Please get back
to us after going through the answers in previous pages. Search
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Tight foreskin
I am 22. i had a problem with the foreskin of my penis. it
was tight and did not come up when there is an erection. when
i manually pull it back it used to come. this problem is from
my childhood so 3 months back my docter performed circumcision
but he cut only a small part of the foreskin.he said now it will
automatically come on its own .but that is not the case .if i
did not pull the foreskin back (or even touch it for long time)
i am feeling a pain in the foreskin because the skin is becoming
tight. the skin is comming to a little distance not even to the
middle of the front part of the penis.
i asked him but he is saying that it will come. My parents have
arranged my marriage. so please tell me what might be the problem.
and if so what is the solution.
Apply a bit of water-based jelly or some other lubricant and
try to pull the skin backwards gently till it stretches well enough
to go fully backwards. Do this on a daily basis for several days.
If it does not help or gives rise to pain, have it removed through
circumcision, a minor surgery done as an office procedure, by
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Circumcision
I am 24. The foreskin on my penis does not move back as it
is sort of closed at the tip of my penis. What is the solution
to this. I hear that a minor surgery will take care of this problem.
Pls. give me details abt the surgery like how long it will take
and how long does it take to recover. Also will there be any change
in the level of sexual feelings. Also can you suggest any clinic
in Delhi which can take care of this problem. -New
Delhi
This condition in which the skin covering the tip (head) of the
penis cannot be retracted is called 'phimosis'. In a typical case
of phimosis, the urine comes through a tiny opening at the tip
of the foreskin. Yes - this requires a minor surgery called circumcision,
in which the skin surrounding the head of the penis (glans) is
excised. Any general surgeon will do it. It's an office procedure,
requiring no hospital stay. You need to get your surgical dressing
changed every day for about 6 days. Meanwhile you can attend to
your daily chores normally.
If left untreated phimosis leads to accumulation of cheesy deposits
under the foreskin, which in turn attract bacteria and therefore
infections and further complications. Phimosis may also interfere
with sexual intercourse. However, neither phimosis nor circumcision
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First ejaculation
Problem: i am wondering when will i experience my first ejaculation
i am worried there is something wrong. I am 13 years old. -yumaha
The age at first ejaculation can vary considerably. It can occur
as early as 11 years of age or as late as 17 years, the average
being 13.5 yrs. At 13, therefore, you need not feel anxious about
this event. It would do good if you consult a sex counselor or
even your family physician and discuss your concerns with him.
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Fishy smell after sex
I am 16. I have had sex for the first time 2 weeks ago, it
was all normal but i have noticed my penis started to smell very
fishy and not very nice, i have not had a circumstision and i
am uncut, its quite hard to clean under my forskin as it is very
very sensitive and awkward.
-Peterborough
Obviously your uncut foreskin has given shelter to some infectious
organisms, which you may have contracted during sex, or due to
your inability clean the part underneath the foreskin. They give
rise to fishy smell, inflammation, and if neglected to other complications.
Consult your physician immediately and take treatment. Normally
you should be able to pull the loose skin covering the head (glans)
of your penis fully backwards till it settles in the groove behind
the head. If you cannot do so, ask your doc if circumcision is
necessary.
Make it a habbit to pull the skin backwards daily and clean the
glans (head) thoroughly with water. Top
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Testis size
What is the average size of the human testis? Does variation
in size matter in sperm production? I did not consult anyone in
this regard...nor any test done.
Research exploring the relationship between testis size and sperm
production indicate that in those men with normal sperm production
the length of the testis should be greater than 4 cms. and volume
greater than 20 ml.
On an average, the adult testis measures 4.5 cm x 2.8 cm. Minor
variations in size may not show noticeable changes in spermatogenesis,
but on the whole, decreased testis size or volume is often associated
with impaired sperm production.
Please remember that spermatogenesis depends on many other factors,
so that men with identical testis size do not necessarily produce
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Condom a must
I am 27. i am in love with a married woman . she is mother
of four. i knew her since last 10 yrs. recently i expressed my
desire to have sex with her. She wants to have sex with me every
time without condom. what do you suggest? -Hyderabad
Vast human experience has always proved that sex outside marriage
may bring momentary pelasure, but, in the long run, it usually
proves to be detrimental to the stable relationship with a life-time
partner. It is also associated with numerous social, psychological
and health problems including STIs and HIV infection. Since you
asked us, our suggestion is that better stay away from sex with
anyone other than your life partner; But if you must indulge in
sexual activity outside marraige, it must be with a condom only,
irrespective of who the partner is.
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Husband refuses to have sex
My husband just announced to me after a major turrning point
in our marriage that it is painful to have sex with me, it has
since his vasectomy 5 years ago. I am crushed and have been for
a while we haven't had sex in 6 months. For some reason I dont
believe him. Answer me soon please. -Pam
Please consult a a sex therapist/counsellor who is also experienced
in resolving relationship problems.
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